We are not all equal in the feeling of suffering related to the feeling of love. When some collapse during a breakup, others put the pain at bay or at least do not seem to experience things of the same intensity. "If someone is not suffering, it does not mean that he is devoid of feelings," says Catherine Demangeot, psychotherapist, sex therapist and couples therapist (1). In the same way that we mistakenly think that someone who is silent feels things less than someone who is demonstrative, the power we love is not reflected in the suffering felt during the breakup." So how to explain that some rarely let themselves be overwhelmed? That we are not all affected in the same way? That we do not live the same upheaval?
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