Do you change the time of stay when the children are at home, and what about paying alimony for those who are left without income? all the answers

• You can divide your stay times differently

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The Corona epidemic forced the public a unique and unprecedented lifestyle. The changes that were forced upon us in one produces situations that can throw off a divorced couple, but with the help of seven rules you can manage the period.

Strengthening the interpersonal relationship

Periods of isolation and isolation are a golden opportunity to cultivate interpersonal contact, both with the children and with the divorced or divorced. For example, during such a period, it is definitely worth considering positively the distribution of time periods set for great freedom, which will allow the divorced children to enjoy two homes and maintain a quality and equal relationship with the two living parents separately. Moving the children for a few days to the other parent's home can also allow the other parent some free time for himself, which will allow him to fill the batteries comfortably.

The division of time periods stipulated in a judgment is a mandatory judicial provision that must be observed. However, in cases of forced isolation, it can be argued that this is a violation that comes from counterterrorism, a cause that under the contract law establishes protection alongside the violator. However, that law gives the court jurisdiction to compel the infringing party to compensate the injured party for reasonable expenses he has incurred, taking into account the circumstances.

Reason and good faith can also place a moral obligation on the parent to bear full responsibility with the children for the entire isolation period, which is likely to result in greater than expected expenses.

Patience - longevity

Judgments and divorce agreements contain provisions that must be complied with, and yet, precisely when we are subjected to higher-power constraints that do not allow for accurate future planning, there may well be situations where the parties may need to be patient with each other to allow individual flexibility or deviation according to individual needs. One of them. It should be borne in mind that the consent of the parties almost completely overcomes previous instructions, and is always preferable for the purpose of encouraging discourse, especially for the benefit of the children.

Recognizing the existence of different opinions

Excess time and physical location fixation create high friction between different people. It is very important to foster the ability to recognize and respect different opinions. Divorced parents sometimes suffer from extreme gaps in their opinions in general and in decision-making related to minor children in particular, sometimes these are gaps that have been intensified and perpetuated in litigation.

At this time, it is important and worthwhile to invest a thought to try to understand the other's opinion, and even if it is not acceptable, then the realization that the other is entitled to hold a different opinion is enough. Such conduct is a very wide opening for future understanding and inclusion.

Disclosures of consideration

Quite a few divorced parents have various constraints associated with the Corona epidemic, ranging from parents working in health and emergency services or who have been confined to their workplaces that are considered essential for the economy, and to parents whose livelihoods have been affected by the situation.

This is a time when divorced parents need to be more considerate, this is not the time to be teasing and there is no point in insisting on the strict adherence to practical instructions that are not directly related to the interests of minor children.

On the contrary, it is precisely consideration and understanding of personal circumstances on the part of the divorced spouse that can directly encourage the other party to make special efforts to fulfill all the obligations that are fixed to him. Unnecessary insistence can escalate the situation and produce unnecessary sediment.

For example, it is quite possible that a father who has so far paid consistently and consistently altered foods has been in a problematic financial situation that does not allow him to meet his full bill today. In such a case, it is advisable to understand and try to contain the situation, either by way of deployment of charges or by way of temporary waivers. These are confidence-building measures that can only benefit all long-term parties.

Please note that the payment of child foods stipulated in the judgment must be upheld. It is probable that the revenue stream would hurt the parent who was fired, issued to the ISA or to an independent parent whose business was reduced because of the situation. Consideration may be given to the collection issue, but not over time.

Courts will also expect divorced parents to hold practical and substantive discussions to try to find arrangements that will balance the need to ensure the satisfaction of children's needs and maintain the financial strength of the paying parent.

In this regard, it is worth distinguishing the basic needs of children such as clothing and footwear, food and economics, and other non-compulsory expenses such as brand clothing, luxury circles, pocket fees and more.

self responsibility

It is the time to discover personal responsibility that needs to be expressed in a correct view of the situation, and the implementation of the conduct in a wise manner, taking into account the needs of each and every person, both as individuals and as a whole.

This is not the time to send negative messages, demonstrations of power, or games of honor and pride. On the contrary. The same is true if one of the parents is forced into isolation, he is expected to update the other parent who will be responsible for the children during the isolation period.

The children will stay with the other parent and thus keep themselves away from risk factors for the virus, and at the end of the isolation period it will be requested that the same parent show responsibility for each other and offer to stay with the children for a longer period that will allow the other parent to accumulate renewed powers.

Economic Preparedness

We are facing a challenging era, especially in the economic sphere. The recession is not around the corner, but it is already with us in the secluded space. It is time to prepare financially, take the time to build a personal budget that will take into account, inter alia, financial commitments set out in judgments or divorce agreements, while emphasizing long-term economic planning.

Maintaining and meeting the needs of children

Last but not least, it is of great importance to understand and internalize much of the importance of maintaining the children's needs and safeguarding their good and routine. It is better to prioritize satisfying children's needs and maintaining routine than directing material resources to various non-essential channels.

Every professional knows how to make it clear that a parent's right to divorce his or her spouse, but this must be done with great sensitivity to the children and with the utmost care that they do not cause any harm as a result of the separation. This is the case with regard to the complex period we are facing, the best interest of the children should be placed on its importance and first importance.

The authors are partners in the law firm "Hoffman & Friedenberg" specializing in family and inheritance matters.